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A PASTORAL FRAMEWORK FOR INFIDELITY COUNSELING

by MICHAEL GEMBOLA in Vol. 9 No. 1 / Apr 2023

DOI: https://doi.org/10.35285/ucc9.1.2023.art7



Abstract
Marital restoration from infidelity follows the biblical pattern of Christian discipleship, involving specific action steps and progress of insight in a relational context. The teaching of Jesus that adultery comes from the heart provides a central guiding insight for conceptualizing infidelity and marital restoration. A framework is presented for the varied helping efforts required for the spouse who was unfaithful, for the spouse who was betrayed, and for the marriage.

Keywords
Pastoral counseling, infidelity, adultery, affairs, marriage counseling, divorce, marital reconciliation
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